EP.15 / The Power of Perspective: How Changing Your View Can Redesign Your Life
David Harborne | Redesign you Life | 3 min read | 9th October 2023
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Have you ever looked at something and thought you understood it, only to realise later that someone else saw it entirely differently?
The notion that “you’re not alone” might bring you comfort, but to another person, it could feel eerie, as if they’re in a haunted house. This duality of perspective isn’t just an interesting thought experiment; it has real-life implications, especially when it comes to redesigning your life. The purpose of this blog is to explore the impact of perspectives and how a simple change in viewpoint can unlock new opportunities for you.
The Tale of Two Reactions
The Café Sign That Spoke Volumes
I remember going to a café with a friend, where we saw a sign that read, “You’re not alone” (above). My immediate reaction was one of comfort, a feeling that we are part of a supportive community. My friend, however, felt quite the opposite; he found it eerie, like something out of a ghost story. This experience highlighted how two people can interpret the same information in entirely different ways.
The Value of Multiple Perspectives
Our interpretation of situations can shape our lives. When we’re redesigning our lives, it becomes crucial to consider that our perspective isn’t the only one that matters. Being open to other viewpoints helps us to think outside our regular frame of reference, creating room for unexpected solutions and opportunities.
Ep.15/
The Power of Perspective: How Changing Your View Can Redesign Your Life
references & related content
Viktor Frankl, “Man’s Search for Meaning,” (Boston: Beacon Press, 2006).
about the author. DAVID HARBORNE
HI, I’M DAVID
A coach and author who asks powerful questions to understand how we can redesign our lives for the better. I believe there’s no single solution for becoming more fulfilled and living a life of purpose; when we know ourselves better and what works for us, we can make better decisions and live a life we choose.
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Life Lessons Through Reframing
My Personal Journey of Transformation
When I resigned from a big company due to a lack of support, I initially felt like a failure. It was a period of intense struggle and self-doubt. However, when I revisited that experience from a different perspective, it was like a revelation. What seemed like a setback was actually one of the best things that ever happened to me.
The Wisdom of Viktor Frankl
This concept of reframing experiences isn’t new. Viktor Frankl, in his book “Man’s Search for Meaning,” discusses how a change in perspective can drastically alter our interpretation of events. In many ways, Frankl’s wisdom lends credibility to the process of reframing our life experiences for better outcomes.
stepping back before leaping forward
So, the next time you’re quick to judge a situation or make a life-altering decision, take a step back. Consider the perspectives you haven’t yet entertained. In the grand scheme of things, especially when redesigning your life, this simple act could be the difference between a life unfulfilled and a life well-lived.
🔺Take home message/insight
So what’s the takeaway from all this?
Different perspectives don’t just enrich our understanding; they can fundamentally change our life path. Whether it’s a sign in a café or a major life decision, the ability to see things from multiple angles is a potent tool for redesigning your life. So, before you jump to conclusions, give your situation the ‘perspective test,’ and you might discover a world of possibilities previously hidden from view.
Your Next Step: Embrace the Change.
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David Harborne
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FAQs
Can a change in perspective really help me redesign my life?
Absolutely. A new perspective can introduce you to opportunities and solutions that you may not have considered before.
Does this apply to both personal and professional life?
Yes, the concept of changing your perspective is versatile and can be applied to various aspects of life, including your career, relationships, and personal growth.
