EP.29 / Finding Your Purpose: The First Step in Life Redesign
David Harborne | Redesign you Life | 2 min read | 17th NOVEMBER 2023
To delve deeper into this topic, be sure to check out my YouTube video, where I discuss the subject further.
Have you ever found yourself sitting at your desk, pondering over the existential question of what you’re truly meant to do in life?
The question is as daunting as it is important. In our society, we’re often preoccupied with the hustle and bustle of daily obligations, neglecting to ask what really matters: “What is my purpose?” This blog post aims to serve as your roadmap in navigating this pivotal question, marking it as the first vital step in redesigning your life. By delving into this topic, you’ll discover the compass you’ve been lacking, guiding you toward a life of deeper meaning and satisfaction.
Unlocking the Door to Your Soul’s Mission
1: The Intersection of Passion and Skills
One effective way to commence your journey in finding your purpose is by identifying where your passions intersect with your skills. Create a Venn diagram listing what you love doing and what you excel at; the overlap will give you a good indication of where your purpose may lie.
For instance, if you’re passionate about environmental conservation and have a knack for public speaking, perhaps your purpose involves advocacy or education in this area.
2: The Impact You Wish to Make
Your purpose often aligns with the impact you’d like to have on the world or the legacy you wish to leave behind. Ponder deeply on the changes you want to see, or the contributions you feel called to make. If your actions echo in eternity, what would the sound be?
A powerful exercise is to write your own eulogy. It sounds morbid, but it clarifies the long-term effects you wish to have on your community or even humanity as a whole.
3: Unearth Your Core Values
Your core values are the guiding principles that dictate your behaviour and action. Being aware of them is crucial in understanding what truly motivates you. Create a list of your core values and examine how they resonate with your daily actions and long-term goals.
If one of your core values is freedom, for example, a nine-to-five desk job might not align with your purpose, even if it pays well.
Having laid the foundation with these crucial aspects, let’s move on to how you can translate this newfound understanding into actionable steps toward redesigning your life.
Ep.29 /
Finding Your Purpose: The First Step in Life Redesign
references & related content
1. “The Role of Purpose in Life.” Journal of Happiness Studies, vol. 21, no. 2, 2020, pp. 527–547.
2. Brown, Brené. “Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.”, Random House, 2018.
about the author. DAVID HARBORNE
HI, I’M DAVID
A coach and author who asks powerful questions to understand how we can redesign our lives for the better. I believe there’s no single solution for becoming more fulfilled and living a life of purpose; when we know ourselves better and what works for us, we can make better decisions and live a life we choose.
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🔺Take home message/insight
So what’s the takeaway from all this?
Finding your purpose isn’t a one-off event but an ongoing process of self-discovery and reflection. By focusing on the intersection of your skills and passions, considering the impact you wish to make, and identifying your core values, you lay the groundwork for a life that’s not just lived but cherished and meaningful.
Your Next Step: Embrace the Change.
If David's vision resonates with you and you're feeling the tug to take charge of your destiny, don't hesitate. Whether you're looking for one-on-one coaching sessions or just want to delve deeper into the world of life redesign, you can explore more at David's website.
I hope you found this blog enlightening. Your journey towards a fulfilled life is just a click away. Don’t let life happen to you; take control and redesign it the way you want it to be.
Cheers,
David Harborne
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FAQs
How long does it take to find my purpose?
Finding your purpose is an ongoing journey. Some people discover it early in life, while others may take years or even a lifetime of searching.
Is it ever too late to find my purpose?
Absolutely not. Many people change careers, hobbies, and even entire lifestyles at various stages of their life.
What if my purpose changes?
That’s perfectly okay! Our interests and passions are bound to evolve. The key is to remain open and adaptable to change.
